You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort – Tonto’s husband reacts

Tonto Dikeh’s decision to dress up like a man for their sons’ fathers’ day celebration in his school didn’t seem to go down well with her estranged .

Recall the actress, yesterday shared photos of herself all dressed up like a man (Like Churchill actually) and then “replaced” him, to attend King Andre’s Fathers’ Day celebration in his school.

Churchill has reacted to Tonto’s actions with a cryptic Instagram post. He shared a text image which reads ‘Don’t play the victim to circumstances you created’.

He wrote:

“It’s cruel and it’s unfair.

You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort. Well comfort is overrated. You are lying to yourself because you are scared of the unknown. But you must stop. To continue lying will eat away at your soul, causing you untold amounts of future pain.

A lie is something that you make yourself believe in order to make life a little easier. A lie is a paradigm under which you operate to avoid pain. A lie will destroy you, inside and out. A lie is something you want to believe because to consider the opposite would hurt your ego.

Sometimes the difference between a lie and the truth can be subtle. Sometimes your brain will try to “logically” trick you into believing a lie. I cannot give you a definitive guide on how to differentiate between the two;

I am not you and I do not understand your specific circumstances, motivations, and desires. I can, however, give you some tips to guide you to make decisions that will serve you well.

DM me for guidelines”



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